Auteur: arlanda (---.37-79-r.retail.telecomitalia.it)
Date: 16-06-08 14:40 >>> RÃ©pondre Ã ce message
The problem is, he's married. To his cousin. They do not live together, because she is in Senegal, and he is in Europe. They only met last year for about 2 weeks, to get married. He says he has absolutely no feelings for her. He says that if I take the decision to be with him, to have a life with him, he's going to divorce. He is an educated man with a good job, so it is difficult to understand how he could accept the arranged marriage, even though it was his mother that asked him to go through with it.
I have so many doubts. Is it really going to work between us if he brings this enormous chaos into his family? Will he really find the courage to do so? His mother is orthodox muslim. I also find it hard to accept that he would be economically supporting his ex-wife for the rest of her life, even after a divorce.
What am I going to do? What if I get pregnant and he still hasn't taken the decision about the divorce?
Sorry, I don't write french.
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